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Testimonials
"After decades of alcohol abuse I had lost all interest
and motivation toward accomplishment. My only goal was to see the sun go
down so I could begin my nightly drinking. Dr. Kern saved my life!" ª
"Dr. Kern and I have collaborated for several years in the field of
substance abuse prevention and treatment. He is a hard working,
creative, and highly skilled professional. I regard his book, Take
Control, Now !: A Do-it-Yourself Blueprint for Positive Lifestyle
Success as a very insightful practical guide to overcoming addictive
behaviors. I referred a distraught mother and her drug-using adolescent
to Dr. Kern after little progress was made with another therapist. After
a few visits, she told me how very grateful she was for the
referral--her son was finally making a noticeable turnaround! Dr. Kern's
community workshops are equally inspiring as his teaching abilities are
topnotch."
Robert H. Coombs, Ph.D.
Professor of Bio-Behavioral Sciences
UCLA School of Medicine
Dr. Kern gave me back my life. He does not urge you to seek divine
intervention nor does he encourage therapeutic dependency by telling you
that you are possessed by forces which you cannot control. Dr. Kern's
tools are experience, insight, concern and humor. Rather than viewing
the client as helpless and weak he believes that intelligent people can
regain control of their lives.
"I contacted Dr. Marc Kern with a feeling of helplessness concerning
my son. I believed that he was on a destructive path and my effort to
communicate this only caused division. The term "life management skills"
took on real meaning during that session. Dr. Kern gave me the insight
to approach the whole person and to relate to my son that taking control
of the issues that are in our power leads us to the strength we all need
to manage our lives. His approach has direction and it is my pleasure to
relate this positive experience to others."
M.R.B.
After several aborted attempts at controlling my drinking by myself (I
had known for years that I had a drinking problem but kept telling
myself I could handle it) I finally contacted Dr. Marc Kern , because I
had rejected AA based upon what I knew about their program and because
the thought of a clinical environment frightened me.
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Just as a physical therapist directs your body's activity to increase
its strength and agility, Dr. Kern directs your cognitive ability toward
regaining rational, productive skills and life and living that have
atrophied due to your long association with some form of addiction. I
assure you that , with Dr. Kern's guidance and your sincere effort,
these skills can be recovered!"
Sam Hanson
Research scientist
I have now become an abstinent human being who refuses to identify
myself primarily as an alcoholic, thanks to your eye-opening web site.
There is much more to me now than that identity. I applaud you for
furnishing other alternatives to AA "treatment."
I am thrilled to find so many resources that not only strengthen my
resolve to stay abstinent for the rest of my life, but that enabled me
to feel empowered for the first time in years.
Dear Dr Kern and staff,
I saw the show on 20/20 a few months back and have been thinking about
it a lot. It is comforting to know that I am not alone in my thoughts.
My boy-friend who has refused to stop his drinking.....has changed his
mind set. he wants to moderate his intake, that's a start.
Dr. Kern
When I first heard of Addiction Alternatives, I thought you were evil
and destructive, too. You aren't. You're saying that the emperor has no
clothes. You're saying the truth. Some of us, indeed, can drink
moderately or take medication - even highly addictive medication -
without relapsing into a condition that's totally out of control. I
don't even 'control' my intake. I simply don't think about it because
it's a non-issue.
Thanks for putting your head out once again. I thank you for what you
are doing. There are so many for whom AA just doesn't do it and the
chokehold of being forced to use the AA model for recovery is loosening
finally. If you ever have surveys or something else I can help with,
please let me know.
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Dr. Kern,
I'm currently a student a Edinboro University enrolled in a Master's
program for counseling. I was so excited to hear about your program
aired on 20/20. I have believed for years that the disease model for
alcoholic was and is misguided.
Dear Dr. Kern,
I watched your interview on 20/20, and I totally agree with you.....
Dr. Kern,
I saw your appearance on 20/20 last night and was compelled to email you
my story. I'm sure there are many in the world who have had similar
experiences, but until last night I had never heard of them! ..... I do
not regret the time I spent in AA, there were many issues I worked
through while doing the steps, which allowed me at the time and under
the circumstances to put my life back together. I think I was a better
candidate for an alternative program and I am glad to see they are
available for others. In the end I was not afraid to step out of the box
and test the water, what a difference it made! I have never emailed
anyone with such personal information, especially that I don't know, but
you spoke to my heart last night. If my story can in any way help other
find solutions to their addiction problems I will be happy to share it
again.
Dr. Kerns:
I was compelled by your story that aired on 20/20 last night. I am
currently the Assistant Director for XXX International Fraternity and
your story of how your addiction habits started as a fraternity
member yourself peaked my interest. I don't know if you speak to groups
normally, but your story of how your bad habits as a Fraternity member
lead to more trouble down the road would really impact this group. And
to give these guys other options to present to members of their chapters
that are facing addiction problems.
Dear Dr. Kern,
I have no doubt you are receiving hundreds and maybe thousands of emails
since your appearance on 20/20. I, as I'm sure you continue to hear,
related tremendously to your experience. Thank you for your courage in
speaking out!
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Dr. Kern,
I was able to watch only a few minutes of the 20/20 segment tonight.
However, I was absolutely beside myself when I heard you speak. I tried
to get people to listen to me for years about alternative ways to deal
with drinking to much. I am a firm believer in alcoholism being an
addiction not a "DISEASE". Drinking for me was a cover up of bad things
going on in and around my life.... Again, I can't tell you how wonderful
it was to hear your story. I thought I had to be the only one.
I am a certified addiction counselor in Illinois, and I watched the
20/20 broadcast with great interest. I'm interested in alternatives to
traditional treatment, but in the state of Illinois, one must be
licensed to provide substance abuse treatment, and the treatment license
requires using traditional means of diagnosis (DSM IV), placement (ASAM)
and treatment records are subject to scrutiny to insure compliance.
While mostly not enforced, unlicensed practitioners are subject to legal
penalties if they treat substance without a license. Illinois has a
private certification organization, and to become certified one must
pass a test which is heavily biased toward disease concept and 12 step
recovery.
Are you aware of any resources that might help one to offer alternative
treatments without the state shutting one's door?
A Hard-hitting Complement to, and understanding of, *ALL* Recovery
Endeavors.
Very sincerely yours,
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